Sometimes you can be so dope and rare that a person won’t even know how to handle it. Don’t dim your light, just to be accepted or approved by others. Not everyone will understand you. Not everyone will appreciate your uniqueness. Sometimes your genuine energy makes people fearful, because it challenges them to be real and honest with themselves. Not everyone is ready for that kind of growth. Don’t blame yourself for someone else’s difficulty to accept themselves. Some people rather fight, argue, and cause problems before they can even look in the mirror to evolve. This is the place where you have to realize your worth and level of vibration is not meant to match everyone you meet. Some people are teaching you lessons or you might even be helping them see their worth. Just keep believing that your light will attract those on the same frequency once you completely surrender to your greatness. Just flow and keep glowing!
The only thing that you need to focus on is bettering yourself. When we’re not growing as people, we try to hold on to what’s familiar even when it’s unhealthy for us. Understand that you can create mature connection that doesn’t require babysitting. You don’t have to be hurt wondering, overthinking, and living in confusion, when all it takes is turning the attention back to you.
The start of change:
When your soul is awakening to its truth, you’ll go through a shift. So many changes will occur in your life. If you don’t accept the changes and trust the process that it’s time to evolve from things that aren’t growing you, than you’ll experience problems. This is where the chasing and forcing occurs, because people are scared to grow into themselves. They get scared of the unknown, scared to let go, because the familiar is too comforting even though it hurts them. The good news is that we need change. It pushes us out of our comfort zone and helps us grow. Even-though there might pain and discomfort during the process; it’s definitely worth it at the end.
The process of change:
Once you get to the point where you’re done chasing, forcing, and trying to keep your past together, a beautiful thing happens; something called surrendering. You let go and allow the change to happen in your life. You’re no longer focused on things outside of yourself to fulfill you. You go within to discover your inner strengths, beauty, light, and everything about you, that’ll elevate your life to new heights.
After you’ve been shifted internally and changed as a person, the results in your life will be much different. Now that you love yourself and feel whole within you, how you attract others to yourself will be completely different. You’re no longer be sending insecure signals, but rather the energy of strength, awareness, love, and kindness. This kind of energy will attract people who are on the similar path of self-discovery as yourself, ones who respect and admire your inner beauty, and ones who know how to walk by your side without force. Magical things happen when you let change, growth, and faith do the work in your life.
The best way to avoid drama or negative energy in your relationship, your ideas, and your life in general is to watch the things you say and share with people. Understand that when you’re in the creative space of manifesting your reality, putting your ideas together, or bringing forth your hearts desire; you need to keep your vision to yourself. By keeping silent of your work, you avoid negative vibrations from others.
Some people don’t believe in themselves, so when they hear your great vision, they automatically shoot it down. These negative vibrations can come from friends, or even really close family members. Only discuss your inner picture with those who you know will join you wholeheartedly in helping you materialize your vision.
Remember, when nobody around you knows how you’re bringing these miracles to pass in your life, you don’t overcome their belief that “it can’t be done.” Many people struggle with this concept, because they easily share their visions, and expect others to understand it. They get discouraged once someone doesn’t believe in them. They start doubting themselves, and even start to become fearful. Can you imagine how many dreams are killed like this? When someone is unconscious of their true potentiality, they project life from a limited point of view. See, that’s not how things work when you’re operating on the realm of “consciously” creating your reality.
In this sacred place, everything is abundant, there’s no limit to what you can do, achieve, or have. Since most people haven’t tapped into this level of belief, they easily share their lack and try to taint open minds from seeing clearly. This is where you have to become strong and realize the power in keeping silent and staying low-key.
Just like the plant, we don’t see the work of the seed under the dirt till it flourishes. In silence, you pull the creative force to your work, rather than scattering it and opening it up for judgement. Once your vision beautifully buds, everyone will notice. Without a single word you not only materialize your vision, but you also give hope to those who have a hard time believing in themselves.
Many of us try to bring people with us on our journey, who are not ready to grow. We try to make them understand something, they can’t comprehend. We try to give them a vision to see the bigger picture, but they remain blind to that wisdom. It’s not your fault. You have to stop blaming yourself for other people’s lack of awareness. You can’t force people to evolve.
Awakening to your truth:
When your vibration is increasing and you’re becoming more aware of life, your interest and outlook will start to change. In the transition of understanding yourself, you’ll realize how much you’re growing and changing as a person. In this process, your inner reality starts shifting, so your outer reality can mold itself to match your new vibration. During this time, the behaviors, habits, and choices of the people around you won’t make sense any longer. So, instead of allowing the realignment for new circumstances to occur, we try to start changing the people around us to match our new energy. Trying eventually turns into forcing, because of our own fears of the unfamiliar. We want everyone to grow together. Move into new phases of life together. However, that’s not how things work. We only hurt ourselves, not allowing these new changes to occur. We inhibit our own personal growth out of fear of losing people we no longer can relate to.
Some people don’t want to grow:
This is a hard truth to swallow. Some people are comfortable at being stagnate. They can’t handle change very well, they’re fearful to try something new. Let them be! Why limit yourself because of someone else’s fears? This is where a lot of pain occurs for people, when their time comes to grow and evolve, they hold back to try to stay in what’s familiar, they try to force relationships to work that are long overdue, they try to keep toxic friendships that are not genuine. So much pain occurs here, because we don’t easily trust the gift life has to offer next. Don’t lower your vibration, to make others happy. You can’t change people, so don’t hurt yourself trying. Move gracefully into your own development and accept your evolution!
What a great and amazing words , eh? but wait,,these words aren’t mine, its idillionare’s
I feel like her words are just relatable to what I’ve been through with mylife lately
Facing new role, new kind of job desk, new people to work with, new challenge to accomplish, new drama to argue.. And soon and soon.
Sometimes I just want to give up…but then again…its time for me to prove my worth,right?
*sipping my coffee and back to work*